April 24 @ 6:00 pm - 9:00 pm

500Kr

The end of bleeding is the beginning

Name: The end of bleeding is the beginning
Start: 2026-04-24T18:00:00+00:00
End: 2026-04-24T21:00:00+00:00

April 24 @ 6:00 pm – 9:00 pm

The Motherhole hosts this gathering. It has three realms: Eros, Mother and Crone.
This is a Crone gathering.

Crone is not age. It is not bitterness. It is not decline. Crone is ownership.

The moment the body stops being a passage for others and returns to you.

This is not the end. This is the release.

Menopause is not a loss of power. It’s the end of leaking it.

Theme of the gathering

Menopause is not a medical event.

It is a biological transition.

And in the modern Western world, it can feel like a quiet form of disappearance.

Something is shifting in you, and no one is describing it in a way that feels accurate.

Or hopeful.

Your body feels unfamiliar.

Your tolerance is shorter.

Your patience thinner.

Your emotions don’t move the way they used to.

And beneath it all there may be a quiet question:

What exactly is leaving?

And what, if anything, is arriving?

Many women move through menopause feeling disoriented, irritated, grieving, relieved, and unsettled at the same time.

You are told it is either a problem to manage or a spiritual upgrade to celebrate.

Neither description quite fits.

We begin where you actually are.

This gathering is for women in menopause who feel the shift clearly, but were never given language for what it means.

What we will do

This is a structured, guided gathering. The focus is articulation.

We are holding a shared space in which you can examine what menopause is actually doing to your body, your emotional range, your tolerance, and your sense of self.

You will write in response to precise prompts.

You will reflect before speaking but you will not be speaking your thoughts, you’ll be voicing those from another in the group. How? Come and find out! All you need to know is that it works, it’s very liberating and feels extremely safe, we promise!

You do not need to prepare anything.

You do not need to be optimistic.

You do not need to “accept” anything before you arrive.

We start with what is true now.

The focus of the evening

We explore aspects of menopause that are rarely spoken about directly:

• the body that no longer responds the way it used to

• the shortening of patience and tolerance

• the grief that arrives without clear permission

• the relief that feels complicated

• the fear of losing something unnamed

• the sharpening of boundaries

This is not about symptom management.

It is about orientation.

Many women sense that something fundamental has reorganised, but were never given language for it.

This gathering offers a way to slow down and name what is already happening.

The Motherhole

The Motherhole.
The first gate.
The original opening.

The Motherhole is the place where life arrives, where identity fractures, where something that was once yours becomes a passage for others.
And then, one day, becomes yours again.

The Motherhole gatherings are not events. They are encounters.
Spaces where women come to speak from inside what actually happened, and what is happening now.

Not to be fixed.
Not to be guided.
Not to be improved.
But to be heard.

Each Motherhole gathering follows a shared method.

Not because one method fits all, but because experience needs holding in order to move.

We work with words, bodies, breath, and sound.
Sometimes with silence.
Sometimes with meditation.
Sometimes through writing.
Sometimes through reading and voicing.
Sometimes through movement or stillness.
Not everything happens every time.

But always a shared speaking at the end.

Nothing is forced.
You can speak.
You can stay quiet.
You can pass.
Listening counts.
The structure holds the room so experience can move, without being explained, fixed, or turned into a performance.

The Motherhole has three realms

Eros
The realm of desire.
Of appetite.
Of what still wants you.
Sex. Rage. Hunger. Refusal.
The pull toward life that never went quiet.
Enter Eros if something in you is awake and restless.

Mother
The realm of cost.
Of responsibility.
Of what life required of you.
Birth. Care. Loss of self.
The moment you became a passage.
Enter Mother if your life split in two and never fully rejoined.

Crone

The realm of ownership.
Of what you no longer give away.
No more passage for life.
No more explanation.
Menopause. Authority. Clarity.
The moment you stop bleeding and start leading yourself.